A.d.d/A.d.h.d is a very complex very advanced disorder, the doctor papers only brief over basic, They dont brief over dating, relationships, just having a a.d.d person around you, when you have a relationship with a a.d.d person your attention, requirements becomes higher by default, not that they are complicated just how the brain works

Some a.d.d people have a easier way to understand "close-Ended Questions" That is question that give a stucture, Like Yes or No, Good or bad, open-ended one forces a.d.d/A.d.h.d people to process the question in a more liner response witch is not only harder for a.d.d/A.d.h.d people but could create overwhelming, feelings withdraw or attempt to escape the quesiton completely, 

Here is a few examples on Close-ended question VS Open Ended questions